Thursday, February 4, 2010

How To Change A Habit

1) Pick ONE habit.  Make it specific and manageable.
  • Good: I want to do yoga regularly.  
  • Bad: I want to lose 50 pounds, quit drinking and smoking, run the marathon, and win the lottery.  
2) Do your research.  
  • Where are yoga classes in your area? (Commuting across town is perhaps unrealistic.)
  • What time do they happen?  (Seven AM?  NOT.  After work?  Okay.)
  • What level is best for you?   (If you can't touch your toes, don't go to Advanced Power Yoga.  Try Basic Hatha.)
3) Organize a social connection to your new habit.
  • Call, email or Facebook your friends until you find a yoga buddy.
  • If you have no friends, pick a class and make friends with the teacher.
4) Make a specific plan and put it on your calendar.
  • Treat it as you would a job interview.  
  • You wouldn't flake on a job interview because you didn't feel like going.  
  • If you would, you have bigger problems than I can help you with.
5) Repeat.
  • Particularly, remember that failure does not mean screwing up once.  
  • If you miss class on Tuesday, reschedule for Thursday.  
  • Beating yourself up is a cop-out.
6) Develop a ritual that you--gasp!--actually enjoy.
  • Have tea with your yoga friends afterward, and bask in the endorphin glow. 

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